There’s an interesting column over at the Huffington Post that talks about Jennifer Lopez and her need for the public spotlight. They also talk about her marriage and the rumors about a breakup.

A couple things they say are definitely true (or at least, used to be true.) One of them is that J-Lo has had a rocky history with romance. Well, sure… she has. But that was when she was younger. We all figure out what we like and don’t like when we’re younger and then behave differently when we’re a bit older.

The article also mentions the fact that J-Lo loves to fall in love more than she loves to STAY in love. Jennifer has admitted that she likes the feeling of falling in love, but again, this is when she was younger. I’m inclined to believe that the happy marriage she has now with Marc (and I still think it IS happy) has changed her view of love. Jen and Marc seem to have a matured kind of love, and that is the kind that usually lasts.

US Weekly has Jennifer on the cover of their magazine talking about the problems with her marriage to Marc. The magazine claims that “multiple sources” have confirmed that “their marriage is at a breaking point.”

Every couple has its problems, though. Especially after the birth of a baby (or two) things can get tense. (Note to people that think a baby will bring you closer together with your partner!)

US Weekly says that the much hyped night when Jennifer did not wear her ring was definitely on purpose, because Marc also was seen out without his. The mag says Marc has always been very controlling of Jennifer, even picking out her clothes and checking her phone logs.

The mag also says Jennifer is itching to get back to the acting world and is craving some of the PR attention she got when she was single.

CelebTV sites the US Weekly article, and also says they talked to a rep of the couple who said they “were fine.”

Apparently Jennifer’s close pal Leah Remini also doesn’t like Marc.

All this is still just speculation, but there is one gossip tidbit that sticks in my craw. US Weekly said Marc has been “badmouthing” Jennifer. That just isn’t cool, and I hope it’s not really true. He apparently told some chick in a bar that his wife was “making him miserable.”

Yikes. Well, all we can do at this point is send Jen and Marc happy thoughts and hope they’ll work things out (if indeed the rumors about trouble are true.)

Images: Pacific Coast News

Jennifer Lopez and Marc Anthony had a night out on the town recently. Some folks say it was to put to rest the claims that their marriage was over. I say, hey, people gotta eat! So they ate.

Here are some snaps and video from Jen and Marc coming out of Laua. I LOVE J-Lo’s outfit here. I like her casual jeans and white top. Marc looks great in his blue velvet blazer as well.

Images: Newscom.

Image credit: splashnewsonline.com.

J-Lo was out at Barney’s this week, shopping WITH her wedding ring on. There’s also a quick video from Jen at Saks 5th Avenue:

Man, these rumors about Jennifer Lopez having trouble in her marriage with Marc Anthony are running wild. She showed up at the Benjamin Button premiere without Marc and her ring.

I didn’t think it was a big deal at the time, and I still don’t. I see J-Lo in pictures a lot without her ring. Still, these rumors are coming from everywhere now. One source says that Jennifer is sick of Marc’s “controlling ways” and is tired of being a “New Jersey housewife.”

Do we HONESTLY believe Jennifer Lopez thinks of herself as a New Jersey housewife?

Many sources say Jen and Marc have been fighting since the twins have been born, which seems to fly in the face of every single thing we’ve heard and seen. They seem happily in love. Even more so now that they have the family they’ve always wanted.

In the same article where it’s rumored their marriage is on the rocks, they are also quoted as having a romantic dinner, with a “meal of meatballs, ribs, tiramisu and chocolate cake” and that they “left holding hands.”

I think this “on the rocks” rumor is definitely false. What do you think?

Image: Newscom.

Well people are buzzing like mad all over the Web because Jennifer Lopez went to the Benjamin Button premiere without Marc Anthony.

Seriously…. are these people kidding? Just because she didn’t wear her wedding ring doesn’t mean she’s about to get divorced. I know Jen doesn’t always wear her ring so I didn’t think twice about her not having it on in the photos.

J-Lo and Marc are in a very happy place now, since they’ve always wanted to have children and now have two beautiful babies.

I don’t think they are getting divorced. What do you think?

I know one thing for certain. J-Lo fans loved it when Jennifer was with Ben Affleck. They were just so darn cute together! But their relationship had a life of its own. The BIG AND BLOATED BENNIFERRRRRRRRRR. (Picture Oprah saying it….)

It should come as no surprise that the “Bennifer” breakup makes yet another top ten list of awful, ugly, and disgusting celebrity splits. Sigh…. poor Ben and Jen…..

We know she’s happy now (and so is he) but we still look fondly on the Bennifer coupling.

In fact, here’s a clip I found from the two of them arriving at the Gigli premiere in the summer of 2003. Has it been five years already?

Enjoy:

It seems both Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez are talking a lot lately about the break up of “Bennifer.”

First, Ben has seemed to have his relationship on his mind quite a bit, and even admitted that he thought doing the video for “Jenny from the Block” was a mistake. Jennifer has been less direct about it but has recently talked of her struggle in finally meeting Mr. Right.

Ben told one source that he and Jennifer were “too accessible to the media.” He says, “I think Jen and I made a mistake in that we fell in love, we were excited and maybe too accessible. I don’t think either of us anticipated the degree to which it would take on a world of its own.”

As in, the creation of a new name (Bennifer!)?

I know both Jen and Ben are happy with other people now, but didn’t we love it when they were together? To that end, I caught a lovely video montage of the two of them. I think you’ll appreciate it.

Image details: The 64th Annual Golden Globe Awards - Arrivals served by picapp.com

So have you heard the latest gossip about Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner? The two are denying rumors that they have split. Specifically, that Jen has split from Ben.

Jen’s been one to leave a marriage or two before. Remember her leaving hottie Scott Foley?

Image details: Legally Blonde Premiere served by picapp.com

This was when she was younger and before she had her daughter, Violet.

Still, I think it’s interesting that Ben is in the news so much lately. First, he’s been making news because of his movie, Gone Baby Gone. Then, he’s been yakking up a storm about how he hated doing the “Jenny from the Block” video.

Image details: Jennifer Lopez and Ben affeck on video set served by picapp.com

Ben definitely looks like he’s changed over the last few years. He’s really seems to have matured. He’s been visiting the Congo to bring attention to the problems in that area, and has done a video for Nightline. He talks about it here:

Ben looks to have reached a place of peace in his life, and it would be a shame to see him and Jen Garner break up. Now that Jennifer Lopez is finally happy with Marc Anthony, J-Lo Stalker wants all her ex’s to be happy, too! haha