Rate J-Lo’s Loves and Win a Copy of How to Make Love With Your Clothes On
Jennifer Lopez has had quite a few steamy love affairs in her day. But which was the hottest? Your opinion could win you a copy of How to Make Love With Your Clothes On: 101 Ways to Romance Your Husband.
Take a look at the guys below and leave a comment by Thursday, June 5th on who you think is the hottest. I’ll choose a winner at random from the comments on Friday, June 6th.
Ready to voice your opinion? Here are your choices:
Ojani Noa

Image used with permission from Newscom.
J-Lo Claim to Fame: First Marriage (Feb. 22, 1997 - Jan. 1998)
Jennifer met Ojani when he was a waiter in a Miami restaurant. He proposed to her during the wrap party after the filming of Selena in front of a whole bunch of people. What else could she do but accept? The marriage didn’t even last a year, and it appears that Jen tried to remain friends with him and even made him the manager of her restaurant, Madre’s. He didn’t last quite six months at that job and was fired. Then he tried to write a tell-all book about Jen, including details of their sex life and marriage. (Quite the prince, no?) J-Lo took him to court and won, and the tell-all went bye-bye.
Sean Combs (P. Diddy)

Image details: MTV Video Awards at Radio City Music HAll served by picapp.com

Image details: Cannes 2008: ‘Changeling’ - Premiere served by picapp.com
J-Lo Claim to Fame: Rapper, Lover and Professional Influence
Sean Combs noticed J-Lo around Hollywood and thought she’d made a great queen in his latest music video. She did. Here’s the long version of the video, but if you click to the end you can see J-Lo and P. Diddy dancing. Very hot.
They soon hit it off and dated for over two years. They had tons in common, including ambition, goals and talent. They were really a great pair, except that Diddy has said he doesn’t want to get married and we all know by now that Jen always wanted a husband and family.
Besides that, things got ugly when Jen and Diddy were in a nightclub in December 1999. There was a gunfight that broke out Diddy’s group and another in the club. Jennifer was charged with gun posession after the fight, and even though the charges were dropped it put a huge strain on the relationship. Jen has also aluded to the fact that Diddy cheated on her. They broke up in early 2000.
Cris Judd

Image details: Jennifer Lopez Madres Restaurant Grand Opening served by picapp.com
J-Lo Claim to Fame: Backup Dancer and Second Husband
Jen was hurting after her breakup with Diddy. And Cris Judd was a nice guy and talented dancer who she met on the set of “Love Don’t Cost a Thing.” This was a rebound relationship if ever there was one. They married in a quickie ceremony in September 2001, but was over less than a year later. Jen started dating Ben Affleck and filed for divorce which became official in January, 2003.
Ben Affleck

Image used with permission from Newscom.
J-Lo Claim to Fame: Part of the Disasterous Bennifer
The big pink ring, the big name, the big hoopla. Everything about the relationship between Ben and Jen was big. Too big. He’s since said that he regretted doing the Jenny From the Block video but not doing Gigli. Like most things that start out fast it burned out fast, too. They were engaged, set a date, but then Ben started going to strip clubs and… no more Bennifer.
Marc Anthony

Image details: Singers And Songs Celebrate Tony Bennett Eightieth Birthday served by picapp.com
Ever hear the phrase, “Right person, right time?” This is the case with Jen and Marc. They dated for a brief time in the 90s. Years later, she broke off her engagement to Ben and he was separated for the second time from Dayanara Torres. They started dating and have been happily together ever since. And now, they have a family!
Related Stories
POSTED IN: Ben Affleck, Cris Judd, Former Flames, Giveaways, Marc Anthony, P. Diddy


149 opinions for Rate J-Lo’s Loves and Win a Copy of How to Make Love With Your Clothes On
Winner of J-Lo CD
May 27, 2008 at 6:19 am
[…] Rate J-Lo’s loves and win a copy of How to Make Love With Your Clothes On […]
michelle lopez
May 27, 2008 at 6:40 am
cris judd is the hottest,best looking inside and out.
Carol
May 27, 2008 at 7:29 am
Cris Judd! cdziuba@aol.com
Evelyn
May 27, 2008 at 7:38 am
I would love to win
Barbara Baker
May 27, 2008 at 8:52 am
Ben Affleck hands down is the hottest one!!!!!
Great giveaway, hope I’m the lucky one!!!
Lori
May 27, 2008 at 9:07 am
I think that Marc Anthony is the Keeper! Sometimes things are just meant to be but the timing has to be right too. They got it right!
Diane
May 27, 2008 at 9:50 am
Ben!
Belinda
May 27, 2008 at 9:57 am
Ben Affleck! Thanks
Valerie Mabrey
May 27, 2008 at 9:57 am
Ben Affleck
Elizabeth Ray
May 27, 2008 at 10:06 am
Sean Combs
Mya Brooks
May 27, 2008 at 10:09 am
Ben Affleck
Mildred Perez
May 27, 2008 at 10:21 am
I would love to win this book to give to my daughter.
Anne
May 27, 2008 at 12:05 pm
BEN, Ben, ben!! No question in my mind about this one!
Janice
May 27, 2008 at 12:17 pm
BEN is the hottest by far! I have to say though, I like him better with Jennifer Garner. He seems more relaxed.
Jonathan McAndrews
May 27, 2008 at 12:34 pm
BEN
denice
May 27, 2008 at 1:04 pm
Ojani Noa. I like him the best because he has that dark dirty thing going on. sexyyyyyyyyy
Gina Stratos
May 27, 2008 at 1:31 pm
Ben Affleck
Jenny
May 27, 2008 at 1:39 pm
Ben Affleck is the hottest man by far!
Adrienne Gordon
May 27, 2008 at 1:51 pm
ben is best
tk
May 27, 2008 at 2:28 pm
Ben is better than Skelator, and Diddy is definitely cool, no clue who Ojani is, but Cris is definitely the hottest!!
Jennifer Barnett
May 27, 2008 at 2:42 pm
Marc Anthony seems to be the more mature relationship in her life. She glows with him and seems very relaxed.
Alicia
May 27, 2008 at 3:19 pm
I want to be a fashion designer.
Kathy Scott
May 27, 2008 at 3:50 pm
Ben is hot. Thanks for the chance.
Dawn B
May 27, 2008 at 4:01 pm
Chris Judd is a hottie! This book would be interesting!
susan varney
May 27, 2008 at 4:51 pm
ben affleck for me
Don
May 27, 2008 at 5:26 pm
Marc…he is the ugliest and she is hot…give me hope…lol
Joanne A
May 27, 2008 at 5:46 pm
Marc Anthony is the hottest, and he can sing! Hope their love lasts a long time.
Linda
May 27, 2008 at 7:20 pm
Clearly Marc Anthony is the winner.
My Blog Contest » Blog Archive » Rate J-Lo’s Loves and Win a Copy of How to Make Love With Your Clothes On
May 27, 2008 at 7:58 pm
[…] a look at the guys below and leave a comment by Thursday, June 5th on who you think is the […]
My Blog Contest » Blog Archive » Rate J-Lo’s Loves and Win a Copy of How to Make Love With Your Clothes On
May 27, 2008 at 7:58 pm
[…] a look at the guys below and leave a comment by Thursday, June 5th on who you think is the […]
Linda
May 27, 2008 at 8:27 pm
Ben Affleck
Doris Tharrington
May 27, 2008 at 8:55 pm
Ben Affleck is the best
tanya wilson
May 27, 2008 at 9:00 pm
Cris Judd is HOT!
Zoe
May 27, 2008 at 9:11 pm
Marc, because they work together the best out of them all!
Terri B
May 27, 2008 at 10:13 pm
Definately Ben Affleck
Tim Miller
May 28, 2008 at 12:08 am
I just want my wife to win this book.
C. Clemens
May 28, 2008 at 12:18 am
Cris Judd probaly the best looking.
TanjaT
May 28, 2008 at 3:35 am
Ben!
Thanks :)
Sharon Jones
May 28, 2008 at 5:07 am
Mark Anthony for sure..
samantha
May 28, 2008 at 6:26 am
Ben is the hottest.All the other ones look like dogs compared to him.Especially Marc
susan
May 28, 2008 at 7:56 am
I think Ben is by far the hottest!
Susan C
May 28, 2008 at 9:43 am
These are all great looking guys, but Ben Affleck is my personal favorite.
littlelatina
May 28, 2008 at 11:02 am
Ben Affleck was her hottest man! Hands down. Cris Judd comes in second.
sarah
May 28, 2008 at 12:54 pm
Ben Affleck!
Angela J
May 28, 2008 at 1:42 pm
Ben Affleck, hands down!
Jennifer M
May 28, 2008 at 2:49 pm
Cris Judd
Sonja Hubbard
May 28, 2008 at 3:41 pm
Cris Judd
Mike Weisberg
May 28, 2008 at 4:37 pm
i want to win
Kari Follett
May 28, 2008 at 5:58 pm
Ben Affleck is my pick!
Claudia Vitello
May 28, 2008 at 6:25 pm
wow
Darlene M
May 28, 2008 at 6:26 pm
Ben Affleck is by far the hottest!!
Patricia Schraier
May 28, 2008 at 8:48 pm
Ben Affleck.
Terri D
May 28, 2008 at 11:08 pm
Cris Judd
Donna Hunt
May 28, 2008 at 11:38 pm
Ben Affleck has my vote! Thank you for the contest!
kay wolter
May 29, 2008 at 12:10 am
after 20 years of Marriage I just want to win this book…..She seems fit for Marc but Ben is the hottest but looks aren’t everything….
JoseinMiami
May 29, 2008 at 9:24 am
she was so ghetto with chris….although he is the sexiest…but she looked more like a super-diva with ben…and im sure she had the best sex with diddy (he’s black lol)…and now she is just a traditional wife/mom/latina with marc….he is too ugly for her…but whatever makes her happy makes me happy.
–I LOVE U JENNY!
Janice Wright
May 29, 2008 at 9:57 am
I’d say Ben Afflack is the hottest. But I guess it’s really up to her who she finds the best!
Thanks for the giveaway.
charline s
May 29, 2008 at 10:33 am
Ben Affleck
No question about it.LOL
Angela Brasier
May 29, 2008 at 4:48 pm
BEN AFFLACK of course!
Nycole Klein
May 29, 2008 at 8:36 pm
I think I’m going to have to go with Ben Affleck.
christopher h
May 29, 2008 at 11:21 pm
diddy!
Jessica
May 30, 2008 at 12:17 am
Chris!!
Terra Heck
May 30, 2008 at 2:34 am
Chris Judd is the hottest.
Donna Coughlin
May 30, 2008 at 5:23 am
Ben Affleck
Carolyn
May 30, 2008 at 8:06 am
Love Ben!!! ;-) Thanks.
Kristy Blanco
May 30, 2008 at 9:41 am
Chris Judd - He seemed like a nice regular down-to-earth guy!
Audrey
May 30, 2008 at 10:06 am
Ben Affleck is my favorite by far!!!!
Kim Mincks
May 30, 2008 at 1:58 pm
Ben of coursre
Cheryl Larimer
May 30, 2008 at 10:30 pm
Ben Affleck for sure
Debbie Criss
May 31, 2008 at 2:57 am
My husband. He shows me and lets me feel he loves me. We’re in love.
Sarah Stern
May 31, 2008 at 9:45 pm
I think Ojani Noa is the hottest
Karyn Miskelly
May 31, 2008 at 9:59 pm
Ben for sure.
nicole belletiere
Jun 1, 2008 at 6:23 am
Ben
Tia Carter
Jun 1, 2008 at 7:28 am
i hope i win
bob
Jun 1, 2008 at 12:30 pm
Ojani then Cris. Ojani because he was on the scene before it got too out of hand. Some of the rest seems like a media circus. I’m not understanding the Marc thing but I’m glad she’s happy.
Jennifer Hedden
Jun 1, 2008 at 2:54 pm
Ben Affleck
Molly Capel
Jun 1, 2008 at 6:24 pm
Ben Affleck is hot!
Kimberly Miller
Jun 1, 2008 at 7:38 pm
Ojani, though he’s a jerk..he’s still hot.
Eva D
Jun 1, 2008 at 9:58 pm
Ben Affleck
Jeanie Slate
Jun 2, 2008 at 6:19 am
Marc
Cheryl Free
Jun 2, 2008 at 9:21 am
I think Ben Affleck is the hottest :) *Thanks* for the giveaway!
Winner of the Wedding Planner DVD
Jun 2, 2008 at 10:33 am
[…] those of you that didn’t win this giveaway, don’t forget you have until Thursday to try and win a copy of How to Make Love With Your Clothes On: 101 Ways to Romance Your Husband. […]
Carolyn Ellis
Jun 2, 2008 at 12:28 pm
Marc, of course.
K. Cleaver
Jun 2, 2008 at 9:25 pm
Well, since I have to choose, I’ll pick Ben Affleck. Honestly though, none of them do it for me. LOL
Angelia McDonald
Jun 2, 2008 at 10:33 pm
Chris he looks a historical warrior you read about in the romance books.
Erica G
Jun 3, 2008 at 1:09 am
Ben!
Penny F
Jun 3, 2008 at 7:42 am
Ben’s cute but sounds like Marc’s the keeper!
Angie P.
Jun 3, 2008 at 8:14 am
Ben’s the cutest.
Monica S
Jun 3, 2008 at 12:44 pm
pdiddy
JONI CHADWELL
Jun 3, 2008 at 6:32 pm
BEN 4 ME!
Chrysa
Jun 4, 2008 at 12:28 am
Marc Anthony!
joni
Jun 4, 2008 at 3:43 am
cris judd was the hottest!!!
lin
Jun 4, 2008 at 6:27 am
patience is a virtue
PegiL
Jun 4, 2008 at 7:04 am
Ben for me!!!!!
Marion Burgess
Jun 4, 2008 at 7:43 am
Cris Judd seemed really cool when he was on some reality show plus he is cute too!
Paula S.
Jun 4, 2008 at 8:12 am
I would have to say Ben Affleck
Jayme Isaacs
Jun 4, 2008 at 11:31 am
Ben Affleck
shawna
Jun 4, 2008 at 1:34 pm
I would have to go with Chris Judd!
Dan
Jun 4, 2008 at 1:58 pm
Ben Affleck
Ed Nemmers
Jun 4, 2008 at 2:26 pm
Mr. Affleck; everybody’s doing him.
Elizabeth M.
Jun 4, 2008 at 3:38 pm
Ben Affleck wins this contest hands down.
Frances Elizarraras
Jun 4, 2008 at 3:50 pm
100% hands down - Chris Judd. He is so good looking and have you seen him move? And he’s so sweet, he really loved her.
Karrie
Jun 4, 2008 at 4:26 pm
oh definitely Ben
Kym
Jun 4, 2008 at 5:15 pm
Definately Marc Anthony
Michelle Moorman
Jun 4, 2008 at 6:40 pm
Ben Affleck!!
Roger Deming
Jun 4, 2008 at 7:32 pm
Ben is the one
Dena Rodgers
Jun 4, 2008 at 8:02 pm
I’m ****ing Ben Affleck.
Samantha Pruitt
Jun 4, 2008 at 8:04 pm
i always liked Ben Affleck
Caron Rodman
Jun 4, 2008 at 9:32 pm
Ben– yummy!
kiyana
Jun 4, 2008 at 11:09 pm
Ben Affleck
Michelle Martinez
Jun 5, 2008 at 12:00 am
I think Ben was the hottest, but Marc probably has a better personality; which in reality would make him have more sex appeal. Assuming you don’t go by looks alone, like me. I just hope this time Jen’s got the right one! I don’t think she’s going to get any hotter than some of the guys she has already been with!!! :-)
Michelle Martinez
Jun 5, 2008 at 12:02 am
I forgot to mention…I really need to win this! I am too mean to my husband and need help! Thanks for the contest. JLO RULES!
Zoe Lee
Jun 5, 2008 at 12:39 am
Ojani for sure :)
Suanne Giddings
Jun 5, 2008 at 12:57 am
Cris Judd is my favorite, but the timing wasn’t right. Thanks for the chance to win!
Barb Wild
Jun 5, 2008 at 1:03 am
i would say ben affleck. he looks cute with jen
kathleen Yohanna
Jun 5, 2008 at 1:30 am
Ben Affleck was the hottest but I guess he wasn’t the guy for her.
P. Adams
Jun 5, 2008 at 5:34 am
Ben Affleck . thanks for the giveaway!
Reminder: Last Day to Win How To Make Love With Your Clothes On
Jun 5, 2008 at 5:50 am
[…] win, head to this post and choose J-Lo’s hottest romance. The winner will be announced tomorrow. Good luck! Tags: […]
Janet
Jun 5, 2008 at 6:21 am
Ben Affleck
CAROLANN MCLAUGHLIN
Jun 5, 2008 at 7:09 am
Definately Ben Affleck!!
Lyndsey
Jun 5, 2008 at 7:12 am
ben but she’s better off with mark
Frances Watson
Jun 5, 2008 at 7:41 am
Ben Affleck
Jennifer C.
Jun 5, 2008 at 8:49 am
Ben is the hottest but I like her best with Marc and Ben best with Jennifer Garner.
sharon
Jun 5, 2008 at 8:56 am
definitely marc antony–she gets to hear him sing every day, LIVE!
Amber Tingle
Jun 5, 2008 at 9:03 am
for me it’s a tie between cris judd and ben affleck
Jennifer Schroeder
Jun 5, 2008 at 9:35 am
I have got to go with Ben. I personally think he’s hot! Thank you for the contest!
SHARON FAIRCLOUGH
Jun 5, 2008 at 9:53 am
Marc Anthony is my chose he seem like he is grounded and they make a great couple
brittany danford
Jun 5, 2008 at 10:12 am
actually, i don’t think she’s found the perfect man yet. when she ditches marc anthony she can get with justin timberlake and then the world would be at peace cause the two most beautiful people would finally be together and would never need this book cause they are perfect. :o)
Becky Grady
Jun 5, 2008 at 10:51 am
I like Marc Anthony best.
roseann kies
Jun 5, 2008 at 11:20 am
Marc and J Lo are made for each other!
Susanne Troop
Jun 5, 2008 at 12:31 pm
Ben!
* * ALiesa * *
Jun 5, 2008 at 2:28 pm
Cris Judd - A nice down-to-earth guy!
Larilyn Garland
Jun 5, 2008 at 3:27 pm
ben affleck was (is) the best. jlo shouldn’t have tried to change him.
~ HeLeN ~
Jun 5, 2008 at 5:07 pm
Cris Judd
Bari
Jun 5, 2008 at 6:51 pm
Ben!!!!!
! MiC
Jun 5, 2008 at 6:53 pm
A nice down-to-earth guy - Cris Judd.
Donna Kozar
Jun 5, 2008 at 7:06 pm
Ben
Timothy Sternberg
Jun 5, 2008 at 7:57 pm
Cris Judd!
Miranda Allen
Jun 5, 2008 at 8:14 pm
Cris Judd
Rosanne Morrison
Jun 5, 2008 at 8:16 pm
Ben Affleck
Charlene Kuser
Jun 5, 2008 at 8:17 pm
Cris Judd is just too hot!
sarah woods
Jun 5, 2008 at 8:17 pm
March Anthony is the very best at the top!!!!!! Many Thanks SW
Lily Kwan
Jun 5, 2008 at 8:27 pm
Ben Affleck
Lori Williams
Jun 5, 2008 at 8:35 pm
BEN BEN BEN!
Jennifer G
Jun 5, 2008 at 8:44 pm
ben affleck
Buddy Garrett
Jun 5, 2008 at 9:22 pm
Marc
Sarah Stevenson
Jun 5, 2008 at 10:01 pm
Cris Judd by far
Barbara McNaney
Jun 5, 2008 at 10:29 pm
Ben Affleck of course!!
J-Lo’s Hottest Ex
Aug 21, 2008 at 12:17 pm
[…] bet you didn’t know that in a recent giveaway poll here at JloStalker I asked readers to say which of Jennifer Lopez’s ex’s was the […]
Have an opinion? Leave a comment: