Diddy Afraid of Marriage
Oh what a difference eight years makes. This picture is from the first Latin Grammies, and J-Lo and Diddy relax. Who knew what was in store way back then?
Now J-Lo has a hubby and babies, and Diddy has babies. But he says he’ll never get married.
NEVER?
Never. He says he “lacked good married role models when he was young.”
I say: COP OUT.
Hey, who among us has stellar role models? I sure didn’t. But I have a happy marriage. I didn’t jump right on into it before I was ready, and I did wait until I met the right person, but I didn’t let my parents mistakes hold me back.
I think Diddy is afraid, mostly because he hasn’t met the right girl yet.
Here’s the thing I wonder: If he doesn’t believe in marriage, then how does he justify having so many kids out of wedlock. The total is up to six now. I understand his reservations, but he said he “blames his single-parent upbringing with mum Janice” and is essentially creating single parent situations with his girlfriends. While he may be involved, he can’t be 100% involved with every one of them all the time. He broke up with Kim Porter just a few months after she delivered their twins.
Since J-Lo has wanted a happy marriage and kids for a long time I have no doubt that this added to their break up years ago.
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2 opinions for Diddy Afraid of Marriage
knowledge_base
Apr 9, 2008 at 5:49 pm
His mother was not a single parent by choice. His father was murdered when he was a baby. It was not as a result of divorce or an out of wedlock birth. His rationale doesn’t even match HIS situation growing up.
brrbach
Apr 9, 2008 at 8:37 pm
Exactly. Maybe Diddy is afraid of making the leap into marriage because he doubts himself. But he shouldn’t.
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